Expats find Nordic lands impose social isolation

Is social isolation the fate of every expat professional in the Nordic lands?

Given that leaving friends and family behind is one of the worst effects of becoming an expat in a strange land, those heading for Scandinavia should perhaps consider another location where social isolation isn’t the norm. Plus points of this chilly destination are affordable childcare and education, a perfect work/life balance and a stunning natural environment, but the downside of loneliness is a tricky prospect, especially if the ability to learn a new language within a short time isn’t your major talent.

According to a recent survey, the seeming inability of the Nordic peoples to interact with strangers from another land is prevalent across all of Scandinavia, making settling in a very difficult project to undertake. Developing a social life, even if it isn’t the same as at home, is essential for new arrivals as it alleviates some of the stress of a new job and unfamiliar environment. More often than not, relocating expats look forward to becoming part of the local community, with failure to do so causing feelings of rejection and a lack of confidence potentially damaging to performance in the workplace.

Norway and Denmark seem to be the worst Scandinavian countries for making newcomers and their families feel unwelcome, in spite of affordable childcare and education as well as a stunning environment with an emphasis on healthy living. Also problematical are immigration and work permit requirements, especially in Denmark, with international talents having to deal with daunting criteria and uncertainty as to whether they can stay or not.